Many modern employers have learned that the balance of work and life is often enhanced when they give their employees sufficient time off to welcome a new baby into their lives. The employee, even if they are not the birth mother, is also given family leave to enable them to bond with their baby. It also gives both parents an opportunity to make those important adjustments that come with learning to care for an infant, and they can also renew the bonds of their own relationship. In all, family leave with a new baby is a busy but productive time.
Running Errands
One of the most difficult aspects of having a new baby is running errands because it will never again be simple, and modern parents must make adjustments to their schedules. Instead of hopping into a vehicle and running around town, they must now be prepared to load many different items that will support their child during the trip. A stroller, diaper bag, extra milk or formula, and even a pacifier might be part of their load. They must also learn the complex maneuvers to secure their child within the vehicle, and this can often be the most difficult step. It can certainly slow them down, but they will be able to get back on track once they learn how to use all their gear.
Cleaning the House
Infants are very restricted in their movements, but that does not negate the fact they control the entire household for at least the first few weeks. Cleaning the house is often much more difficult as new parents are concerned they might make too much noise, or they might be interrupted when the child awakens. They can possibly look back on their life of just a few weeks prior and see how easy it was to clean the house, but their current situation will teach them the need for patience.
Relationships and Bonding
Many couples are eager to welcome a new baby into their lives, but some of them forget it is important to renew their own relationships and bonds as they become closer to their child. They each have their own contribution to make to the family, but remaining a steadfast couple is one of the most important ones they can make. They will have their own separate relationship with the baby, and it will grow over time. Retaining their adult relationship at this time will help them make the adjustment easier for all three of them.
It is a joyous time when a couple has a new baby, but it can also be difficult. The fact that many companies now allow new parents family leave has helped them cope, and they should take full advantage of it. For those who will be returning to work, it is a special time they can share with their spouse and child. The custodial spouse who will remain at home will be able to share their joy as well as appreciate the physical support of their partner before they return to their work.
